Here's the Facebook speech I've been giving people who have that attitude:
If you're ambivalent or indifferent to whether Referendum 74 succeeds or fails, please vote to Approve. Our nation agreed a long time ago that "separate but equal" is an unacceptable solution. Churches will not be required to perform marriages they do not believe in or support, and the sanctity of existing heterosexual marriages will not be compromised. Love is love.
I need a drink.
photo via Dan Savage, from The Stranger's voting party last night